One half for man and the other half woman.
In the beginning the male aspect was found alone in need of companionship. So is in these days we live we're waking up finding ourselves alone in search of companionship. This lonely state can come upon us even when were in a relationship.
The answer to the questions that plague us in this time is going back to our commitment to God or for those who haven't beginning a commitment with God.
Woman who are in relationships find themselves emotionally drained because their talking to there mates or potential significant other when the source of the matter your speaking with him about is finding yourselves falling deeper into God.
Men have the same option to run to the father, not allowing the mind to become a gate way out into other situations.
Go back to the beginning of your relationship with God. Find what needs to be healed within your own being and then pursue to reconcile your relationship.
Relationship with the father is and always will be the beginning of renewing something that seems old or irreparable. Deut. Chapter 5 and chapter 6
Blessings in creating covenant relationships!
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Important first and foremost... Being committed to Him so that we become conscious that he has always been commitmented to us. It really is a marriage. Commitment to Him in all areas of life will get commitments that's been shaky in areas of our lives stabilized: like if your relationships have been shaky read over the commandments.
Being in relationship with God, sharing daily devotion with him makes changes in us also changing the outcome of our circumstances.
(Men and women speak different language)
Possessing effective ways for communication will open doors for healthy, happy, and successful relationships. Looking at the world overall, we find our endeavors are built based on our relation- ships, therefore the way we relate to one another defines the outcome of circumstances in our lives. Examples of how to relate to confrontation: If your mate is arguing about a situation, take the approach to practice listening and let go of the desire to engage in the argument. Give a different response rather than the expected response. This can be the first step in letting your mate know that something is changing about you which could be a continuation of positive change allowing you to evolve in your relationship with the plan God made for couples.
This book is a good read to help shift your thinking concerning relationship thinking!
12/11/13
(Division in Marriage)
Divided thoughts, intentions, and aspirations create homes that cannot stand. For instance: You and your mate have gotten married but set no goals concerning the future. Your mate loves to spend money but you are someone who saves. The difference in thought perception concerning money brings conflict that can cause volatile problems to your marriage. Recognizing this and getting and agreement that the two of you will work at together is important as soon as possible. The longer the problem goes with out attention the bigger the problem gets.
Solutions: Finance and money managing classes,http://www.crown.org/
12/9/13
(It could be you holding up the commitment)
It could be you very well whose holding up the commitment you desire from the person your dating. How you may ask? By accepting and giving to much. Everything in life has a balance, even the Universe is balanced concerning the way its orbiting system functions. If we do not in like manner adhere to a system of understanding on how to function and build healthy relationships we will never have proper balance concerning man and woman relations. We will thus continue to build dysfunctional families which affect society virally negative.
It is ok to say no, keeping your integrity in tact, non- compromising. If you feel threaten by saying no then check your confidence level. Many people agree with things they ardently disagree with internally because they love or they feel funny in their stomach about their mate. Check the feeling and make sure your not forsaking your own goals and aspirations. Remember relationships are based of agreements.
Love yourself first so that you will understanding loving others, without love for yourself you can never love another.
12/8/13
(Your mate has no intention on committing)
That's right you've been dating 2 years, live in and apartment together, even purchased a car. What's holding up the commitment? Or did you think commitment began with agreements beyond the first essential agreement?
The first agreement to have is the agreement of oneness, the agreement that says were partners for lives, moving forward to build a life together with the same goals and aspirations concerning life.
Many people miss the opportunity for commitment because they...
1. Get caught up in playing the role of a cow being milked without being purchased.
2. You may be involved with and individual who has been hurt by past relationship and afraid of an repeat scenario. Its not always that they don't want to commit, it's that they don't know how. In any case this can become emotionally consuming because of the confusion.
3. Then you may have met someone whose not ready to commit which is respectable because their still enjoying life.
The key is knowing your place in the relationship. If you know their not going to commit keep it moving, you can't change people that's God's department. It saves you a lot of heart ache!
Realize your valuable, many people are searching for someone like you. Face it you are wanted but to receive you must let go of what has been.
Have a great day!
12/7/13
(Matters of Dating)
Dating requires commitment... That is if your dating to get married.
Many people will say marriage is always the end result when dating but for some people dating is away of life and marriage is not and option. What happens to someone who is sincere about the relationship they're in but the partner has no real desire to marry them? The individual who desires to marry becomes crushed because their mind perceives the outcome to be marriage while the other persons mind is not thinking about commitment. Its important to be honest and communicate upfront what your looking for in a relationship. Many times people jump into relationships having sex and making financial obligations together not realizing the one thing that's missing is there ability to commit to there relationship in unity becoming one.
11/29/13
This book was written with the intention of helping individuals
gain an in-depth understanding that relationships are built to last;
and they can when everyone involved looks to God who is the source
of their being for the answers they seek. Companionship was given
in the Garden of Eden but the one thing that changed the whole
world in the Garden was when Adam relinquished the authority
God had given him.
*Let us listen and reason with each other concerning our differences
but at the end of the day, let us put our egos to rest and pray to
our Father for the answers we seek concerning our mates.
11/28/13
The purpose for writing this book is to provoke individuals
in relationships to think farther than their desires. By presenting
areas of communication breakdown, in which we tend to become combative
when confronted with the issues of various breakdown or weakness in our
families units, we can reconcile these issues by changing former ways of communication.
Breakdowns in family and relationships lead to breakdowns
in our societies and communities. Genesis chapter 1 reveals the step
by step plan for a one on one relationship filled with guidance from
God concerning the choosing of our mates as well as how you and
your mate should develop and grow together in the relationship. Let
us all keep in mind we all have room for change, with the understanding
that we all have work to do and there should be no reason
to blame others for their faults and flaws.
God looked beyond our faults and saw our needs. The scriptures
listed in the following pages have been added as tools to help
change the mind of the readers, to encourage and empower families,
our environment and even history.
11/26/13
It’s essential for all to know effective communication is a must in relationships. In any relationship if you don't have the proper communication you may very well fail. Many will say their communication is effective, even great or me and my spouse are the best of friends. Some may not be sure if they indeed have good communication or not. You will know your communication is not effective when your man does not answer you or when he tends to ignore you that you could use some work in the communications area.
11/24/13
Have you ever stopped to think why people attract certain type of thinkers which in turn generally creates relationships. I mean when you look at our lives on a day to day basis you can apply the word relationship to everything we do... Your employment or work is geared around relationships, you attend events by relationship or with someone your relating to, driving your car or for those who take the bus involves relationship, you communicate in relationships be it your children, friend, or mate etc.
The question to answer is if you don't like whose around you or the outcome of your circumstances what are you going to do about it? Change must happen before your desired results come to fruition. Change is repetitive behavior, habit forming positive or negative. James 2:14-26 Faith without works is also dead if we don't do something to make changes.
Breaking old habits begin with realizing the emotion or action is not profitable. Realize what motivates you to feel the way you did and pay attention to your perception concerning what people say and do around you. This does not mean become defensive, it means to pay attention to you, your thoughts, and actions. The change you seek is often times waiting on you. On the flip side keep a balance, constructive criticism is good but know who will give you honest criticism to help you grow and not tare you down. Other peoples opinion of you is not God's opinion of you.
Joshua 1:8 Meditate on these things and THEN you will have good success!
These Things are the things God is saying in the word and giving you, not what others are saying. Sometimes you have to tell yourself to shut up as well because your own thoughts toward yourself are combative, defeating you from the blessing that are waiting on you.
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